How to Approach a Woman you like – Tips to get you your Dream Girl

Have you ever seen a woman who was so attractive you sweated on the thought of approaching her? Perhaps you don’t want her to be with another man. How do you overcome your fear and go for her? If you are just looking for beautiful women, where can you find them? Which are the best and proven methods of successfully picking up a girl?

To begin with, if you haven’t spotted a woman you like go out there and start meeting new people. Beautiful women rarely go door to door looking for boyfriends. You have to go out there, spot them and be the first to go after the phone number. You never know, your soul mate might be out there waiting for you to take the first step towards her.

If you are usually overcome by trepidation every time you want to go for a woman you like, take time to approach women often. One of the best traits you can ever have as a man, confidence, comes with practice. The more girls you meet, the more comfortable you will be approaching other women. You will even learn what women respond to and what doesn’t work. The rule of the thumb is to keep repeating the things that work on ladies and dropping those that don’t. Soon you will be better than the love doctor.

Pick up is a game of numbers. You have probably heard that. The good thing with numbers is that they improve your chances of ending up with the person you are looking for. The more girls you approach, the higher the chances one is going to think you are the prince. It will also help you overcome the fear of rejection. It is this fear that prevents you from being with the kind of women you have always wanted to be with. After you have polished your skills you will understand that rejection is rarely about you and that it rarely happens.

When you go out there to meet women, choose comfortable places. If you approach women in a dark alley, abandoned parking lots etc. chances are that she will run away. We are living in a world where rapists abound and still get away with their actions. Choose places that women will be comfortable like parks, get-togethers, church, ceremonies, weddings etc. If she is comfortable, she will play. Always remember that.

Always make eye contact with the woman you approach. It builds attraction. Have you ever seen how women maintain eye contact with a man they want? You need to learn how to maintain eye contact too. When talking to a girl it’s a caring thing to look into her eyes. It lets her know you are interested without having to tell her. That’s another trick; you don’t love her with words, only actions. 

A sincere smile can be very charming. People tend to think that women love serious men who cannot share a smile. Well smile some more because it makes you look like fun. Women just wanna have fun.

What gets you the girl? What makes you stand out before all other men? In a nutshell, it’s 3 Cs. Confidence, control and challenge. Confidence gets you there as women love men who have their act together. Control keeps her in check and prevents her from throwing stupid tests at you. You never pass by the way. It’s an easier path to her heart if her attraction levels are so high that she won’t test you. Challenge is what keeps her in the relationship and prevents her from straying. There is a saying that no woman can walk away from challenge. Try it for yourself and see.

Always remember that pick up is a fun game and if you are not having fun, you are doing it the wrong way. Take some time to be easy and laugh at rejection, stupid mistakes or for just being lame. One day when you are the Zen master of relationships, you will realize that all it took was to learn.